You Can't Make Peace With God
Why Every Attempt to Reconcile By Yourself Fails
Have you ever tried to make peace with someone you offended?
You craft the perfect apology. You promise to do better. You offer to make amends. You work to rebuild trust. Sometimes it works. Sometimes the relationship is restored through your sincere efforts to reconcile.
Now apply that same approach to God. You’ve sinned against Him. You’ve broken His law. You’ve rebelled against His authority. So you need to make peace with Him, right? You need to apologize sincerely enough, promise convincingly enough, work hard enough to restore the relationship. If you just try hard enough, eventually you can reconcile yourself to God.
Except Scripture says that’s impossible. The believer is not called upon to make his peace with God. Not because God doesn’t want peace, but because you never have nor ever can make peace with Him. Your best efforts at reconciliation are utterly inadequate. Your most sincere apologies fall completely short. You cannot bridge the gap between yourself and God, no matter how hard you try.
This sounds harsh, but it’s actually liberating. Because if you can’t make peace with God, that means the burden isn’t on you. You’re not responsible for accomplishing something you’re incapable of accomplishing. The pressure to perform perfectly, apologize adequately, and reconcile completely is removed. You can stop trying to do what you were never meant to do.
So if you can’t make peace with God, how does peace happen? You accept Christ as your peace. Not as someone who helps you make peace. Not as someone who makes your efforts at peacemaking effective. As your peace. He is the peace. He has already accomplished the reconciliation. Your role is simply to receive what He’s done.
Paul explains this in Ephesians. Christ Himself is our peace, who has made both one and has broken down the middle wall of separation, having abolished in His flesh the enmity. Notice Christ didn’t show you how to make peace—He is the peace. He didn’t teach you techniques for reconciliation—He accomplished the reconciliation.
This is radically different from how we naturally think. We assume we need to do something to fix our broken relationship with God. We think we need to earn our way back into His good graces through sufficient remorse, adequate improvement, or convincing promises of better behavior. But all of that is trying to make peace on our own, and Scripture says we can’t do it.
Think about why this is impossible. The barrier between you and God isn’t just hurt feelings that need soothing or misunderstanding that needs clarifying. It’s sin—actual guilt before a holy Judge, genuine rebellion against a righteous King, real violation of eternal law. How do you reconcile that? How do you make peace with someone you’ve fundamentally wronged in ways you can never undo?
You can’t. No amount of apology can erase what you’ve done. No amount of improvement can undo your past. No amount of good behavior can cancel out your guilt. You’re trying to solve a legal problem with emotional solutions, trying to address objective guilt with subjective remorse. It doesn’t work because it can’t work.
But Christ works. He didn’t just feel bad about the separation between God and humanity—He did something about it. He didn’t just wish for peace—He made peace through the blood of His cross. He didn’t just hope reconciliation would happen—He accomplished it by bearing the full penalty of sin Himself.
This is what it means that with Christ is God and peace. You don’t have God on one side and peace on the other, trying to bring them together. In Christ, God and peace meet. In Christ, the holy Judge and the guilty sinner are reconciled. In Christ, the barrier is removed and relationship is restored. Not through your efforts, but through His finished work.
So what does it mean practically to accept Christ as your peace? It means you stop trying to make your own peace with God. You quit attempting to craft the perfect apology or execute the perfect plan for reconciliation. You abandon efforts to make yourself acceptable through your improvement or performance. You simply receive the peace Christ has already made.
This requires humility. It means admitting you can’t fix this yourself. It means acknowledging that your best efforts at reconciliation are worthless. It means surrendering the illusion that you can make yourself right with God through your sincerity, your improvement, or your dedication. You have to come empty-handed and receive what only Christ can give.
But it also brings certainty. If peace depended on you making it, you’d never be sure you did it well enough. You’d constantly wonder if your apology was sincere enough, your improvement was real enough, your promises were convincing enough. But when peace depends on Christ’s finished work, it’s certain. He made peace perfectly. He accomplished reconciliation completely. He removed the barrier entirely.
Paul could write with absolute confidence that we who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. Not “are being brought near” as we work hard enough. Not “might be brought near” if we perform well enough. Have been brought near. Past tense. Accomplished. Done. Through Christ’s blood, not through our efforts.
So stop trying to make your peace with God. You can’t do it. You were never meant to do it. Instead, accept Christ as your peace. Receive the reconciliation He accomplished. Trust in the finished work He completed. The peace you need has already been made. Your only role is to believe it and receive it.
“For He Himself is our peace, who has made both one, and has broken down the middle wall of separation.” (Ephesians 2:14)
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